Wednesday, July 21, 2010

The Spirit of Offense

I have been hearing of a lot of people in Christ who are offended and holding unforgiveness in their hearts.  I taught from this message a few years ago.  Today, I think it deserves looking at again.

In the Gospel of Matthew verse 24 - the disciples asked Jesus as He was departing for Heaven “What will be the signs of your coming and of the end of the world?” And Jesus answered: Matt 24:10-13 And then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another. And many false prophets shall rise, and shall deceive many. And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold. But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved..


This day has come. The Church has become offended. Members are offended by their Pastors, so they leave the church. Employees are offended by their employer, so they quit. Couples are offended in marriage, so they divorce sighting irreconcilable differences. Children and Young Adults are offended, so they bring guns to school and shoot anyone in there way. We wake up with attitudes. Angry. Mad. Upset. This has become your disposition.

The Dictionary defines offense as: a violation, transgression, to hurt or cause pain, to cause to fall into a sinful state.

The "spirit of offense" chokes off ordinary conversation. It chokes off benefit of the doubt. It chokes off forgiveness. It chokes off tolerance. It denies human imperfection, and expects a simple, loving person to be precise and mechanical while trying to express sincerity. It assumes the worst. It ignores the obvious intention and digs for something ugly. It allows common every day words to be misconstrued and implicated as the offender of rights. I believe it is the most vicious problem in our society today, and that it nourishes an attitude of dissatisfaction with life, especially for those who choose to carry it around like a badge of honor that reads, "Indignant, and rightfully so." So easily offended and never seeing that the problem is within them, but most often they would rather place the blame on someone, anyone else, rather than accept responsibility and acknowledge that it is their choice to be offended.

An offense is Satan’s trap to hold you back from God’s blessings in your life.

I believe that recognizing this spirit of offense and restraining it is the key to personal freedom that ultimately unlocks the ability to enjoy life and its simplest pleasures.

We have all had our feelings hurt at one time or another. We have all felt insulted by someone or felt like an injustice was done to us. When our feelings are hurt or some other injustice perceived, we have to let it go, resolve it immediately, forgive and move on, otherwise; resentment begins to build, soon followed by indignation, intolerance, hatred, and finally, seeking some form of revenge or restitution. What a trap. If we do not recognize offenses for what they are, not only can we have our joy stolen, but we also trap ourselves with our own lock and key.

Luke 17:1 Then said he unto the disciples, It is impossible but that offenses will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come!

The spirit of offense can affect us on a daily basis. We have to choose not to allow people, words, or actions to offend us. After a period of time, if you consistently build on benefit of the doubt, tolerance, patience, understanding, and always allowing for human imperfection, you will begin to enjoy the people around you and even cherish their unique differences. Sometimes you may even find that you are amused at the very things that used to annoy you.

We need to learn how to release it and move on with God.

Mat 5: 23-24 states, Therefore if thou bring thy gift to the altar, and there rememberest that thy brother hath aught against thee; Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.

Jesus thinks so much about your relationships that He doesn’t even want your sacrifice until you mend your differences with your brother.

Unforgiveness is an acid in the container it dwells in.

Generally you will notice that people who constantly talk about their past probably have been badly hurt. They may have been in an abusive relationship, or had an abusive parent, or perhaps even been raped. Some may only have been hurt by a comment made against them - whatever it was - you have to let it go. It can literally kill you.


Forgiveness doesn’t make the person right – it sets you free.


Allowing offense to stay in your heart can stop your growth in Christ.


Take any offense you may have had in your life and right now take it to the Lord - get on your knees and ask Him to forgive you for harboring this offense - and then PRAY for that person. Even if you think you are not holding un-forgiveness in your heart. Ask God to search your heart and purge you from unforgiveness Prayer will change how you feel about that person and cause you to love them with God’s love (agape).

Naked and Not Ashamed,



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12 comments:

琬安琬安 said...
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陳璇竹陳璇竹 said...
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靜容林 said...
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珮鄧韋 said...

在莫非定律中有項笨蛋定律:「一個組織中的笨蛋,恆大於等於三分之二。」............................................................

家唐銘 said...
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凱v胡倫 said...
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蔡曼鄭美玉屏 said...

永遠不要躊躇伸出你的手。也永遠不要躊躇接受別人伸出的手。.................................................................

Marji said...

Greetings, this article was posted on Facebook - I'm glad. I'm in the ministry, years ago the Lord gave me a message called "Beware of the Way of Offense". The first time I spoke this message it came with a sense of warning and great passion. They "listened", then an incident regarding leftover roofing tiles opened the door to a major offense. Eventually the church closed, and the pastor left the ministry. The scripture you used is the same one the Lord highlighted to me. Many will become offended - betray - then hate. This is the road offense will take us on if we don't take deliberate action. I found betray also means to "turn out of the way", the way (straight path) we are supposed to stay on. When we turn out of the way, betrayal will follow. To betray means to hand over unto the hands of the enemy. Next comes hate. We are told that if we say we love God and hate our brother we are liars. When we entertain offense, we not only put ourselves into the hands of the enemy, but we enter the land of lies. The Christian who goes the way of Offense is also ripe for a false prophet. These signs includes the love of many will waxing cold... that translates to "an chilling evil wind is blowing." This is much greater than hurt feelings - this is what the Devil is doing. It will only be through the power of the Holy Spirit that we can choose to LOVE and FORGIVE, and stay on the narrow path.
Thanks for listening to my insights. Bless you, Marji Stevens www.marjistevens.com

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Anonymous said...

This is a spirit that will hinder you, but God can cure and heal all.

Chuck said...

Excellent insight.

Chuck said...

Thank you for paying the price to get this insight.